Your Best Routine Isn’t on Instagram

The Science of Quiet Joy

Routines aren’t just about getting more done. According to research in behavioral science and neuroscience, routines regulate cortisol, improve sleep quality, and reduce decision fatigue. But here’s the part that often gets missed: they also give us emotional stability, especially when life feels chaotic.

We’ve been sold this idea that a “great routine” should look aesthetic: lemon water, 5 a.m. alarms, perfectly filtered yoga shots. But what if your most effective routine is the one that doesn’t photograph well? One that’s messy, repetitive, maybe even boring; but makes you feel whole?

How I Rebuilt My Day from the Inside Out

Building mPath gave me the space to rebuild a different kind of rhythm - one anchored in health, peace, and purpose.

• There is no magical morning. But there is always morning chai I don’t rush through.

• I make our bed. I always have. Weirdly it gives me a sense of accomplishment right off the bat.

• When my wife has office days, I do prep her car with whatever I could including her lunch bag so that she can walk right off without juggling 5 pieces of things in her hand and I get to wave her off from the garage. No exceptions!

• Walks aren’t for steps, but for sanity.

• Work is deep, but not endless.

• There are grocery runs on peculiar days and peculiar times because I know I can skip the lines and get the fresh stuff and feel conquered EVERY SINGLE TIME I do this. It’s weird how simple things feel like victories if you change your perspective. (read my prior post on similar topic here)

• I am taking a lunch break, sometimes more than 60 mins. Yes, the BREAK. I don’t compromise.

• And relaxation, it is not reward-based, just necessary. You stop when you need it the most.

I can list out more, but you get an idea. I intentionally list items that are not flashy, yet they give me extreme happiness every single day, every single time.

At mPath Services, I help clients integrate digital tools, but this part is just as important: creating routines that support how you want to feel, not just what you need to do.

Productivity is important, but peace is what sustains it.

Your Turn: If No One Could See Your Day, How Would You Live It?

• If social media didn’t exist, if no one could “like” your routine; what would your ideal day look like?

• What habit would you bring back just for yourself?

  It doesn’t have to be trendy. Just true.

Because of nature of this post, it has appeared on my personal blog page as well.

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